"In our secrets", there are several examples of secrets. But i think that the secret from where i see it is how the people really feel. People are not able to express then selves to others. They have a stigma on them that they should keep there feelings in side.People are hush-hush, because that is what is expected of then.
The secrets seem to be building in side of the people. As a result of the underline silence there are enormous consequences for the future.