"If you don't believe in God (or any
sort of higher power), you better be right.
(Alisha Mobley)
The above statement makes me feel bad. Do you believe in God because if he does exist you'll get into heaven while me, being the nice person i am (without religion) will spend the rest of eternity in the fiery pits of hell? Do you want nonbelievers to go to hell? I think it's a mean thing to say. Besides, If there were a god, don't you think he'd let me into heaven even though I don't believe in him because I'm trying to good in this lifetime? Can not believing be forgiven?"

First, that statement I made wasn't meant to rude or mean. It was just something I've seen around and sometimes I find it ironic when I think about the never-ending argument:

Person A: I am right, you are wrong. You are stupid for believing this.

Person B: No, *I* am right and *you* are wrong. You are pathetic for believing that.

As for the rest of your questions Alice, I am not going to attempt to answer any of them because what you believe is your choice and yours alone. You shouldn't have to defend yourself to anyone. I have friends from all different religious backgrounds (a few Christians, some Catholics, some are Atheists, and one is even a Wiccan) and I love them all. The guy I am dating is Agnostic. Whatever you believe, you believe and I don't judge because it's not up to me to judge in the first place.