>You are a mother, you are a student and >these are false identities. Your thoughts >arose from false identities, therefore you >do not own them or order them.

I really hope I do not offend you by saying this and if I do I am deeply sorry. I do not feel that being a mother is a "false identity," the student part I can see and understand. Being a student is part of my life that will change. It is an important part of my life right now, but not forever, and not the most important part of my life. However, "Mother" is who I am. My children will grow older, god forbid they may die, but even if they do die I will always be their mother. I don't believe that "mother" is a false identity. It is a major part of my religion and I feel very strongly about it. I am sorry if I offend anyone, I do have an open mind and do not judge or condemn anyone for not believing the same as me. I am not saying "you are wrong and I am right." I am just saying that I respectfully do not agree.