I think Jennifer has the right idea about selflessness. She has approached her identity as ever changing and her belief system as malleable. In working in an environment which flies in the face of her own faith in herbal remedy, she not only accepts others point of view (a type of selflessness) but also in doing so makes a silent statement to herself that it's ok to separate work from home. It is only when one is comfortable with oneself and identity (or non-identity) that one is open to other suggestion or to surround oneself with a diversity of opinion. To constantly be hammering into other's heads that "my way is the right way" and at the same time be content with it, shows to the world how lacking in selflessness one really is. I mean seriously now.. how selfless is recreating yourself in someone else? That's not only blatant narcissus but in the realm of control issues as well. But i digress into the world of psychology. OOps. ;)