I totally agree that the whole male dominance thing is so dumb!!! In my marriage for the first 14 years I was the chief moneymaker, I have the education that unfortunately my husband does not and at his age is afraid to obtain. Through the years my husband took alot of bantering from his friends that he should just stay home since I wore the pants in the family... Talk about a lot of crock!!! We made all decisions together and it didn't matter whose money it was; it was for the whole family. My husband is proud of the fact that I am pretty smart and could run a restaurant so efficiently and I won several awards for what I did, you know what I had his advice the whole way, it was a team effort!! Maybe if more people worked as a team instead of head of house and spouse things would be much better in a family!!