I totally agree with your bandwagon comment, Monica. They're so afraid of being individuals, and being the "odd man out" that they're totally willing to sell themselves short to fit in. In a way, they're so devoted to each other, and are almost like a family. But on the other hand, they don't realize how they're pretty much ruining each others' lives by not branching out. By having their own little community. Instead of looking at the big picture, they're all viewing life through a little window that they've built together.