I am really sorry for all that you went through. It seems so unjust that a family has to suffer when they really need help! Where is the fairness when a good person is down for awhile but still can't get help because they over qualify. At that moment when you can't even put a good meal on the table you don't feel over qualified do you! There has to be a better way and different people to work on getting there, it may not help you, but how many you's are there out there still needing help.