People are rude to you when you break
the norm because they dont consider it
proper. I did not help a friend do the
dishes when she invited me over for
dinner and a movie. I guess she though
it would be nice/polite for me to help w/the
dishes even though I was a guest in their
home. I though I was an invited guest
and it was not expected of me to help out
in her home. I think we all have
preconcieved notions of how we soppost
to act in given situations but sometimes
we don't wanna do what we are expected
and so in thoes situations we learn a
little.

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