Yes, I agree, there will always be conflict, but through conflict can come order as well.

Just think of the two sides opposing each other, sure it may start with you trying not to be like your neighbor, but pretty soon everyone is trying not to be like their neighbor.

Everyone wants to be different, especially now in this day and age, but friends, mutual bonding, family...share very similar outlooks on life a great deal of the time.

Think of your friends, and how many things you have in common, if you didn't you probably wouldn't be friends. Or at least not for long. There are your conflicts of interests, but doesn't that usually bring out a change in the both of you, that can sometimes be spread onto your other friends?

I don't think of order so much as everyone being sheep, but as the change in someone, brought on through a mutual relationship, not one of hate and greed.