I guess I will try this again since it kicked me out the first time.
1. The conflict Paradigm.
2a. As long as there is free will there will always be conflict. Most people do not want to be controlled and think and do and act the way their neighbors do.
2b Conflict seems to be the way of the world at this point. Everyone seems to use this to control the masses. There will always be the more powerful trying to control the weaker.
3 Order is a nice thought, but again as long as we have free will and opposing view points about just almost everything, I just don't see how it would work. Look at George Orwell's 1984, or if you are a Star Trek fan the Borg.